A few days ago the girls and I were in the car and Hayden started asking me how to spell different things. She and Gracie often bring books and paper and crayons with them when we have to go somewhere, so I didn't really think too much about it when she was writing away in the back seat. Until she asked how to spell 'girlfriend, boyfriend, do you want to go to a movie, and I love you'! So being the typical curious mom I started questioning her about who the letter was for and how long this crush had been going on. She said it was for Tanner from her preschool class and they loved each other. I asked her why she liked him so much and she said because he has a light sabre (you know, from star wars). All of this was news to me and came pretty much right out of the blue. She's never really mentioned anything like this before. She is after all only 4 but she was quite matter of fact about the whole thing. When I told Greg about it he was amused and asked Hayden about Tanner and she is dead serious when she talks about him. She doesn't giggle or smile shyly when someone mentions her letter or her love for him, she's very serious. I couldn't help but include her cute little letter. If she sees me writing about it she'll probably get mad at me but the gist of it is "Tanner Do you promise to be girlfriend boyfriend. Do you Want to go to a movie. I love you Hayden" She also included lots of hearts and a flower then her little sister got a hold of it and made a few scribbles. She's still learning about sentences and spacing but of course she wont listen to me when I try to teach her because I am after all only a mom! Anyway I thought it was cute so I had to blog about it but I will be keeping a close eye on this Tanner fellow. We did promptly pull out the preschool pictures to see him and he is a cutey and she promised not to give him the letter till she was 15. She obviously doesn't realize how far away that is but it's still cute.
11 years ago
